mrdlschmidt
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Post by mrdlschmidt on Jun 12, 2011 8:31:58 GMT -5
Well after 10 yrs of marriage, it looks like its going to happen. Don't know whats going to come in the time being but all I can focus on right now is my kids. I know some of yall have been there and done that so any words of wisdom would be appreciated.
Thanks Guys,
mrdlschmidt
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Post by chad72 on Jun 12, 2011 13:02:23 GMT -5
Good luck with that!!
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Post by machette on Jun 12, 2011 20:50:48 GMT -5
Have never been through it my self, but having grown up in a single parent family with a dad that never came around and having only seen about a dozen times in my 31 years, always be there for the kids. You can never be there enough for them. My parents split when I was than a year old.
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Post by buckeyehunter on Jun 12, 2011 20:58:30 GMT -5
Good luck and pray for a good lawyer! Being there for those kids is most important though!
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Post by passinthru on Jun 13, 2011 4:30:17 GMT -5
Man i dont want to hear that. Im getting married in less than a month. Im sorry it went bad with you and your wife. That sucks! I hope you can remain friends after all is said and done if nothing else just for your kids. We are all here for you if you need us bro!!!
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Post by terminator on Jun 14, 2011 16:41:27 GMT -5
Been there and done that! The best advice I can give is to forget about her and devote your attentions to your children. There is a world full of women, but you only have a few kids. The days in the near future will be very tough, but it does get better. If you gave your best in the marriage, then you did your part. When I look back at my first marriage I am thankful for my son that I have with her and hurt 0% for not being with her. I got a great new wife and still have my son, so it was kind of a "win/win" situation for me.
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Post by dagr8bilster on Jun 14, 2011 23:14:31 GMT -5
Well, I have to say that theres so much involved with the situation that we don't know and dont need to know but I can offer this advice...if there is any love that you have for her and any love that she has for you , then you owe it to yourselves to try harder to work it out. If somthing has already happened tht would warrent a divorce then deal with the fallout the best you can and move on. I've seen good guys loose it and i don't want that for you at all. Hang in there. We hope the best for you and your family DL.  |
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mrdlschmidt
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Post by mrdlschmidt on Jun 17, 2011 18:44:17 GMT -5
Well the judge granted me sole custody today. I now have the kids with me and trying to comfort some tired and confused children. Haven't seen or heard anything from them since last friday, but today I have them. This is something very unheard of here especially since the seperation papers haven' t been served yet. All I can ask yall do is pray for my wife that she can get her life straightened out before its too late.
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Post by JD on Jun 17, 2011 21:25:29 GMT -5
I'm sorry to hear that man, I really am. Be strong, and be supportive of your children. And, as always, we are here to help in any way we can.
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Post by passinthru on Jun 18, 2011 4:07:04 GMT -5
Man i feel for ya. Wish there was some way we could help. Keep them kids close to you and all will hopefully work themselves out.
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Post by jtrtmt on Jun 18, 2011 6:54:58 GMT -5
im very sorry to hear that. will keep you and your kids in my thoughts and prayers
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Post by riverrat on Jun 19, 2011 14:53:10 GMT -5
 trust in the lord his grace is sufficient.i will keep you and your children in my prayers.
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Post by terminator on Jun 25, 2011 8:06:42 GMT -5
Prayers sent! It seems like the kids are always the ones to suffer the most from a divorce. If you need to vent we are here for ya my friend!!!
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Post by oldzimm on Jul 2, 2011 16:07:19 GMT -5
trust in the lord his grace is sufficient.i will keep you and your children in my prayers. That is the best advice, put it all in the Lords hands and he will get you through the hard times. |
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trust in the lord his grace is sufficient.i will keep you and your children in my prayers.